urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:kuri_ree I want to stand taller and bigger than the rest... but I know it's wrong. Kuri 2009-03-23T07:07:21Z urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:kuri_ree:40543 2009-03-23T07:06:39Z 2009-03-23T07:07:21Z Relient K- Manic Monday I love you all the more, MCR<br /><br /><a href="http://moviesblog.mtv.com/2009/03/19/my-chemical-romance-explain-why-theyre-not-into-twilight/">http://moviesblog.mtv.com/2009/03/19/my-chemical-romance-explain-why-theyre-not-into-twilight/</a> urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:kuri_ree:30095 2007-05-18T12:28:57Z 2007-05-18T12:33:08Z Relient K- Faking My Own Suicide <a name="cutid1"></a><br />Shamelessly ripped off from <span class='ljuser' lj:user='advice4teens' style='white-space: nowrap;'><a href='http://community.livejournal.com/advice4teens/profile'><img src='http://l-stat.livejournal.com/img/community.gif' alt='[info]' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /></a><a href='http://community.livejournal.com/advice4teens/'><b>advice4teens</b></a></span>!<br /><br /><b>40 Things Every Woman Should Know...</b><br /><br />If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.<br /><br />Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.<br /><br />If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a man's character, leave him alone.<br /><br />Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.<br /><br />Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. .<br /><br />Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.<br /><br />If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.<br /><br />Have faith in God/Goddess/Great Spirit/The Universe regarding your relationship, but don't let faith make you stupid. God/Goddess/Great Spirit/The Universe does things decent and in order.<br /><br />Don't settle.<br /><br />Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.<br /><br />The only person you can control in a relationship is you.<br /><br />There's only one 'reason' a man dumps you; he doesn't want you.<br /><br />Always put yourself and your happiness first.<br /><br />Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.<br /><br />Like from the show Sex and the City, if he doesn't call, he just isn't that interested.<br /><br />Know when to cut the cord, don't be strung along<br /><br />Don't fall for the "I'm confused role". Remove yourself from the situation to let him figure things out (but don't wait for him, move on).<br /><br />If you want to have a clue as to how he will treat you, watch how he treats the WOMEN in his family (not just mom).<br /><br />Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.<br /><br />Actions speak louder than words.<br /><br />Never let a man define who you are.<br /><br />If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.<br /><br />Just because he says he loves you, doesn't mean that he won't hurt you and it doesn't mean that you are meant to be with him.<br /><br />Know that you deserve to be the number one person in the life of the #1 person in your life.<br /><br />Love is a verb.<br /><br />Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to make someone unavailable-available, someone ungiving-giving, and someone unloving-loving.<br /><br />A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.<br /><br />If you don't love self...you can't love anyone else.<br /><br />You cannot mend someone else's broken heart<br /><br />You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.<br /><br />You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary..<br /><br />NEVER give more in a relationship than you are getting out of it.<br /><br />When actions and words conflict, believe the actions. Respond to the actions.<br /><br />Don't fall for the "I'm not the loving type"...when a man loves you there is nothing in this world (within reason) that he wouldn't do for you.<br /><br />Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him he takes it for granted..<br /><br />When it's time to let go; let go.<br /><br />Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.<br /><br />Never believe a man that tells you he want to be with you, while he's with someone else, - if he wanted to be with you, he would make it happen more sooner than later.<br /><br />Don't be a man's door mat , make him open the door for you, because a real man would do this on his own.<br /><br />There is someone out there worthy to be in your life, let out the trash so he can come in.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />...I wonder if there are any exceptions... ._.